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How to be the perfect friend: a guide for the ladies

7/7/2017

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Do you remember those quizzes from Cosmopolitan and Teen magazines that helped you contemplate the very essence of your being? 
​“Are you a good friend?” “What kind of friend are you?” “Will your friendship last forever?”
 
As an introspective teen, I felt it was my personal responsibility to take these quizzes.
 
I always scored highly, secure in my belief that I was the bestest BFF to ever walk the earth.
 
In case you haven’t guessed, this is the basis on which I offer you friendship advice. If it’s good enough for Cosmo, it should be good enough for you. 
Here’s how to be the perfect friend: a guide for the ladies
Note: Perfection is impossible. Read these tips accordingly. Results may vary. 
  • Understand when a chocolate and wine Rx should be filled
  • Call on her birthday (with a musical voicemail, of course)
  • Plan girls’ trips together (Vegas, a night in the city, whatevs)
  • Never go solo for a mani-pedi (who else will help you decide on your nail color?)
  • Support her fitness goals by jumping right in with your own
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  • Telepathically convey to her whether you’re wearing sweats or jeans to brunch
  • Pass on that sale email for her favorite store (unless she’s in a ‘not buying anything right now’ phase)
  • Try new things together, like a paint night out or standup paddle-boarding
  • Conduct Facebook surveillance as required by the best friend code
  • Send her a card highlighting her best qualities, just because
  • Set goals together: like finishing your latest Netflix binge session
  • Pick up the tab every so often. You will see one another again.
  • Carefully bash the ex(s) without questioning her sanity for dating them
  • Always answer ‘yes’ when she asks if you’ll eat some of her French fries
  • Keep her fave throw blanket on hand for when she comes over to watch “The Bachelor”
  • Keep her on your list of top 3 people to call with important news
  • Help her diagnose her ailments (with the help of WebMD), and tell her when she really should see her doctor
  • Keep your pep talk game strong for breakups, job changes and family drama
  • Offer to help her pack or move (and then follow through)
  • Help her list stuff on eBay or Craigslist—photos, descriptions and all
  • Play the role of cheerleader, confidante, or tough love guru, as the situation dictates
  • Frequently practice your BFF karaoke duet
  • Snazz up her resume and cover letter when she’s on the hunt for a new job
  • Keep her favorite Riesling chilling in your fridge at all times
  • Get matching best friend bracelets—they’re not just for tweens (think Juicy Couture, Fossil, or Alex and Ani)
  • Never forget these words: ‘But first, coffee.’
  • Regularly remind her why she is so awesome
  • Help her organize her closet (Bonus! You can keep that adorable leather jacket she never wears anymore!)
  • Be a shoulder to cry on. And then tell her to snap out of it (when the time is right)
  • Help her to reach for her biggest, boldest dreams
I dedicate this post to Melinda, my bestie of 20 years. Love you to the moon, girl!
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Photo by Megan Sharma. With my bestie since age 13, Melinda!
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2 Comments
Melinda Beirnes
7/7/2017 03:53:18 pm

Right back at ya' girl!!! What a journey we have been through, and I can't wait to see what's in store for us when we are committed to an Old folks home :) Wouldn't want to walk this earth without you girl!! Love you!!!

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Megan Sharma
7/7/2017 05:35:40 pm

Thank you for always being my rock and helping me find the humor in everything! You really are the greatest bestie a girl could ask for! Xoxo

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